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4 Great Books About Queer Love With Important Lessons

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For many readers, literature is our first avenue into the queer world. While mainstream media slowly catches up with queer representation, literature has always been at the forefront of the LGBTQ+ movement.

Since the dawn of time, literature has been a safe space in which the queer can be explored, represented, and discussed. Here, we look at just four beautiful books in which this is done.

Some of these are books entirely about queer love. Others are books that simply feature queer love. Regardless, each one has a lesson it can impart to us.

Warning: this article contains spoilers.

Maurice — E.M. Forster

The English novelist E.M. Forster is perhaps best known for books like A Passage To India and Howard’s End, richly complex explorations of social conventions and imperial criticism.

But his posthumous novel Maurice is a sharp turn from his usual fare. Exploring the relationship between two men, Maurice also gives us an insight into Forster’s own struggle with his sexuality at a time when homosexuality was illegal.

The novel follows the titular Maurice as he leaves prep school and heads to public school, tentatively entering into a relationship with fellow student Clive, using ancient Greek writings on same-sex love as a conduit to this.

Clive eventually leaves Maurice and gets married to a woman, leaving the latter to visit a hypontist in an attempt to ‘cure’ him of his homosexuality.

What we can learn from it

It feels moot to remind you that homosexuality is still illegal all over the world. Even many Western countries have only recently embraced it in law (the US only federally legalized it in 2015).

In Maurice, Forster writes that “England has always been disinclined to accept human nature.” Alas, it is not just England that has been so averse to the natural expression of queer love.

There are Maurices all over the world in countries that have not yet caught up with the rest of the modern, loving world. Discrimination is everywhere, and coming out is never easy, even in enlioghtened Western countries. It is something queer culture should not — indeed, cannot — forget easily.

The Color Purple — Alice Walker

This one is a staple of required reading in schools the world over. Ask someone who’s read it what they thought of it and you’ll likely receive a response of shock and horror — while beautifully written, it is a traumatic tale that stays with you long after you’ve finished it.

Couched in a hotly-charged racial background, The Color Purple explores what it means to be black, queer, and a woman in a world geared against these qualities. Celie and Shug’s relationship is about more than just Sapphic love — it is a validation for Celie, a simple quality that she was denied throughout her life.

The relationship between Celie and Shug is not a simple, gratuitous, lesbian affair. It is the bedrock of something deeper, something that resonated (and will continue to do so) with queer readers all over the world.

What we can learn from it

Queer love isn’t necessarily a romantic pursuit in and of itself. Romance and relationships in the queer spectrum are also a vehicle for discovering oneself, and exploring one’s identity.

In a heteronormative world, queer love is more than a simple romance. It is an odyssey of the identity, a medium through which not just sexuality is explored, but also gender, race, social background, and more. Indeed, for queers and cis straights alike, feeling worthy and loved is of the utmost value, something that transcends the qualities that make us both disparate and the same.

The Color Purple is an intersectional masterpiece whose voice echoes through the years. For young queer readers, it offers an avenue into the queer that is at once accepting, inclusive, and diverse in the same breath.

A Little Life — Hanya Yanagihara

A Little Life is the second novel by Hanya Yanagihara, and after it was published in 2015, it became a bestseller.

The novel focuses on the lives of four friends in New York City, following them from college graduation through to middle age. We watch Malcolm, JB, Willem, and Jude as they navigate work and personal crises, but it is the latter two characters that are the most poignant.

Little is revealed of Jude at the beginning, although much is hinted. Gradually, the reader comes to learn of Jude’s horrific abuse at the hands of his primary caregivers and so-called loved ones during his youth. When we meet him, he self-harms regularly and often relies on crutches to help him walk.

As the friends grow older, Jude and Willem enter into a relationship. However, due to his past sexual abuse, Jude does not enjoy sex, and the pair have an open relationship.

What we can learn from it

Throughout the novel, Willem is depicted as a cis straight man. But the love that blooms during his friendship with Jude turns into a deeper, romantic love. During their open relationship, Willem continues to sleep with women whilst still leading a happy, loving life with Jude.

A queer relationship is not black or white. It is invariably colored by our past experiences, and indeed by the experiences gleaned from living in a heteronormative society.

A queer romance is rarely as paint-by-numbers as that of a straight romance. Nor is it as simple — a friendship is a courtship is a relationship is a soulful bond that lasts a lifetime. Each one bleeds into the next, and

Captain Corelli’s Mandolin — Louis de Bernières

Louis de Bernières is known for his florid, poetic prose and compelling narratives that border on the edge of the fantastic. No more is that evident than in his bestselling masterpiece, Captain Corelli’s Mandolin.

 

Whilemainstream readers were transfixed by the affair between the eponymous Captain and Pelagia, queer readers were drawn to the sweet but heartrendingly tragic narrative of Carlo Guercio — L’Omosessuale, as his chapters are titled.

Guercio is an Italian soldier serving under Captain Corelli during the Second World War. He is a behemoth of a man but, in contrast to his peers, he is shy and sensitive. He is also deeply in love with Corelli.

For his part, Corelli is oblivious to Guercio’s affections. The only time he gains an inkling of Guercio’s affections when, seconds away from being executed by firing squad, the giant Italian throws himself in front of Corelli. His body absorbs the bullets and Corelli is spared.

What we can learn from it

Guercio’s arc is a tragic one. He makes the ultimate sacrifice for someone he loves, a love that is not only forbidden but unrequited.

But Guercio’s story is made all the sadder by the solitary nature of his struggle. Only the reader is given an insight into his love for Corelli (although his written record is passed onto Corelli posthumously).

Queer representation is better than it’s ever been, but there are still barriers that stop prevent people from coming out or embracing their sexuality.

2019 is not 1941, and the world is a very different place today. Queer love exists, and will always exist.

But hiding this love is torturous. Even today, queer love isn’t always so welcome. Even in urban metropolises like New York, there are silent pockets of resistance against something that is natural and otherwise widely accepted in the mainstream.

 

The four books mentioned here are just the tip of the queer literature iceberg. There is an entire canon of queer literature out there, an ocean in which those who are curious, exploring, or simply reveling can immerse themselves in.

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The Hottest Spots for a Gaycation

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If you’re looking to take a vacation sometime soon, then you probably have a checklist of wants. Whether you’re looking for sun, sea, and surf or glam nightlife, there is a perfect gaycation for everyone out there. A trip to one of these awesome locations will have your friends and family super jealous as you strut your stuff in these super-welcoming communities. Indulge in a romantic wine tasting in France or make some new friends at a party in Vancouver. In fact, there are so many inclusive options you’ll have a hard job choosing which one to visit first. 

Guerneville, California

California is well-known for its relaxed and welcoming vibes, but if you’re looking for something a little different from the San Francisco party scene, it’s worth taking the 70-mile road trip to Guerneville. A small town surrounded by stunning places to hike and camp, it’s also the setting for a number of gay bars, chic shops, and hotels and resorts owned by people from the gay community. Spend your days hiking the trails in the sunshine before lounging on Johnson’s Beach and tasting the wines of the region in the evening.   

Loire Valley, France

If it’s culture, history, and art galleries you’re after, then the Loire Valley has everything you could need and more. Located in central France, Loire Valley is a stretch of land surrounding the Loire River. Much of the area was added to the UNESCO World Heritage Site list in 2000 due to its stunning natural beauty, fairy tale castles, and legendary vineyards. Take a day tour here from Paris or opt to stay in one of the luxurious castles to sample the cuisine, taste the wines and take in the elaborate décor.  

Barcelona, Spain 

The beautiful climate, amazing beaches, and exciting nightlife make Barcelona an absolute must for any gaycation. Spend your days soaking up the culture of the famous Gaudí buildings and sampling some of the best tapas in town according to some guides, before heading out for a night on the town. Whether you want to grab a meal, go dancing or try your hand at a few rounds of poker, everything you could want is very near to each other. The casino, clubs, and restaurants are located right behind the beach, so you could check all of the boxes on your going-out wish list in one night! 

Lisbon, Portugal 

Lisbon has everything a gaycation needs – stunning beaches, incredible nightlife, and one of the most welcoming LGBT communities on the planet. To add some serious sass to your gaycation try to coincide your trip with the Gay and Lesbian Film Festival in September or the annual gay pride festival Arraial Pride. But don’t worry if you can’t make those events, because the shopping centers of Chiado and Principe Real attract the LGBT crowd like bees to honey. Make new friends on the Meco nudist beach before hitting the nightclubs, or head to Trombeta Bath Spa for a cocktail in a sauna.

Vancouver, Canada 

There are many LGBT-friendly places in the world, but Vancouver really is one of the most liberal places on earth. There is always an LGBT party happening here, so you’ll be spoiled for choice if you want to experience the nightlife in this progressive city. Head to the legendary Unicorn Ball, where guests are expected to attend in full unicorn attire before hurling themselves into the adult-sized ball pit or check out the drag shows at club Showtime which are really worth writing home about.

Astoria, Oregon 

Oregon might not be the first place you think of for a sparkly gaytastic vacation, but it has a super lively LGBT community and a very welcoming atmosphere. Located a short drive from the very popular queer haven of Portland, Astoria is packed with local breweries, rugged coastline, and jaw-dropping scenery. The gay-owned Astoria Coffee House & Bistro is ideal for making new friends and getting a dose of caffeine before hitting the road again. 

So, there you have it, folks! A roundup of some of the best gaycations around! Which one will you be heading on first?

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Top LGBT Holiday Destinations: Staycation Vs Vacation

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With the world in lockdown, the thought of a holiday might be the last thing on your mind. But surely all this time inside is the perfect opportunity to start planning your next big holiday as soon as the lockdown lifts?

Read on for some LGBT holiday inspiration, looking at both staycations and vacations for your traveling pleasure.

The best staycation destinations

Cheap, cheerful, and close to home, these are the top staycation destinations in the US.

San Francisco

Ah, San Francisco. Arguably the world’s gay capital, this city is a beautiful, effervescent hubbub of LGBT+ life. It’s virtually a Mecca for the scene, and it’s well worth making a trip to this stunning city at least once in your life.

Head to the iconic Castro District to experience America’s oldest LGBT neighorhood, then head to Castro Street to see the old location of Castro Camera, gay rights activist and politician Harvey Milk’s old stomping ground.

Beyond its thriving gay scene, San Francisco has an array of visual delights and attractions. From the stunning Golden Gate Bridge to the city’s historic cable cars, there’s plenty to do when you’re not partying the night away.

New York

If you’re a San Francisco native and you want to try somewhere new, why not head to the Big Apple itself, New York? This bustling metropolitan hub is the perfect destination for those of you with a taste for city life.

New York is renowned for its colorful nightlife, and there’s no shortage of excellent bars, clubs, and all-night cafes for you to partake in. And of course, the theatre scene is second to none — be sure to visit Broadway to take in a show.

As well as a stellar nightlife, New York is also home to some important moments in gay history. Get yourself to Lower Manhattan and visit the iconic Stonewall Inn, a designated US National Historic Landmark & National Monument and scene of the landmark Stonewall riots of 1969.

Chicago

Chicago might be the Windy City, but it’s also a stellar holiday destination for America’s hip and happening LGBT tourists. Its LGBT+ scene dates back to the Twenties, where a solid gay scene was established in Towertown.

Today, Chicago boasts a number of important LGBT institutions.

From the Chicago Gay and Lesbian Hall of Fame and National Gay and Lesbian Sports Hall of Fame to the Leather Archives & Museum and the Windy City Black Pride, Chicago is home to some cultural institutions that the history-lovers amongst you would do well to partake in.

The best vacation destinations

Fancy a little globetrotting next year? Here are the best destinations you need to try.

San José, Costa Rica

Want a little sunshine from your next trip abroad? Hustle your fine selves over to San José, Costa Rica’s capital and a shining gay gem of Latin America.

Sunny Costa Rica is more than just a travel destination — it’s also a bastion of progressiveness in Latin America. The country recently ruled a years-old ban against same-sex marriage illegal, and in 2018 Costa Rica approved recognition of transgender gender on national identity cards.

If you’re a drag queen, a drag follower, or you just want a little panache and glam in your life, you’ll love San José’s Club Teatro. The drag shows are out there, perfectly performed, and visually stunning — well worth a trip if you can.

Brighton, UK

England’s answer to San Francisco, Brighton is a thriving hub for the LGBT+ scene in the UK. Indeed, its gay scene rivals even that of the country’s capital, London — Brighton Pride is the biggest Pride event in the UK.

But beyond Pride, Brighton also hosts a dizzying array of bars, pubs, and nightclubs that cater to the city’s populous LGBT+ scene.

If you’re feeling artsy, time your visit to coincide with Eyes Wide Open, Brighton’s queer film strand that showcases the best of films highlighting sexual and gender minorities across the city.

Tel Aviv, Israel

It might come as a surprise to some that Tel Aviv has a thriving LGBT scene. Despite the significant conservative faction within Israel, the country also boasts a thriving and energetic gay culture that is enough to rival anything you might find in the US.

Situated on Israel’s Mediterranean coast, Tel Aviv is a sun-drenched sprawl of stunning Bauhaus architecture, gorgeous beaches, and nightlife that will test even the most hardened partygoer.

What really sets Tel Aviv apart from other LGBT+ holiday destinations is that its scene involves weekly parties rather than dedicated gay bars or clubs. While there are plenty of gay bars in the city, the weekly mean it’s easy to find a great night out that brings everyone together.

 

Use your time in lockdown wisely and plan the holiday of a lifetime to look forward to. Whether you opt for a staycation or something a little more exotic, take some inspiration from the list above and make it a holiday to remember!

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5 Vacation Plans to Make After COVID-19

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Apart from the constant ongoing discussion on how COVID-19 is going to affect all areas of business, one of the most debated questions is how this pandemic will affect the tourism industry. While some agree that tourism will suffer but not too much, others think that tourism will definitely have its lows in certain areas of the world. Since this is a question without a clear answer yet, why not take the time and think about alternative vacation plans; just to recharge our batteries after being self-isolated for such a long time. Not only is this thought process quite therapeutic in this case, but it’s also something that you can do now to prepare for a nice trip that’s ahead of you:

1. Be a tourist in your own country

It is still not very clear whether we will be able to travel abroad this year and to what extent, so it’s always good to focus on local options. They say that the grass is greener on the other side, so this is our time to prove them wrong and actually experience some of the magic that foreigners experience when they come to your country. You’ll find some magnificent things.

2. Opt for a road trip

Another option to have in mind is a road trip, and once again, this can also be done in your own country. This is an even better option since you will be able to visit more than one place and thus kill more local birds with only one stone. As far as road trips are concerned, be sure to check your car before you head off. Check your brakes, your liquids and most importantly, your tyres. Opting for 4WD tyres is perhaps the best option, especially if you live in countries such as Australia, where the terrain can be quite varied and when you don’t usually know where you will end up. Road trips are always so much fun, and we do really need to just sit in the car and drive around for some time.

3. Book everything last minute

Contrary to what we have been doing so far, it’s crucial that you wait until the very last moment in case you want to book something abroad. Why? Because we are still not sure when and where we will all be able to travel, and also if things are going to change in the future. You do not want to spend a fortune on a trip now and just figure out that you will have to cancel it yet again. So, take your time as you shouldn’t be rushing with decisions right now.

4. Back to basics

Perhaps you’re terrified of insects, and perhaps camping is not your forte, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try it out at least once in your lifetime. Bearing this situation in mind, isn’t this year the best time to do it? Your country probably has a plethora of camping options and opportunities and apart from that, you can always try glamping – a more luxurious form of camping that you will definitely adore.

5. Visit the capital

Finally, if you’re from a city or a town that’s not the capital of your country, why not book an apartment or a hotel room and visit it for a change? You have probably never experienced your own capital in a tourist sense, so this just might be what you need. If you’re a travel blogger all the more reason to do it, as you will not only have extra content, but you will be able to back up all of your opinions by stating that, yes, you have been a tourist in your own country as well.

 

Even though most of these plans relate to traveling locally, perhaps we can wait a bit more to actually see if we will be able to travel someplace abroad. Until then, why not have your own country in mind, at least for one year? It could be rather interesting and fun.

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How to Travel like the LGBTQIA+ Rich & Famous

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Who doesn’t love to travel? It helps to broaden the mind, provides the opportunity to explore stunning locations, and get the perfect tan. 

Yet certain people travel at a different standard to regular folk: the rich and famous. A-list celebrities within the LGBTQIA+ community get to sample the finest foods, stay in the plushest of rooms, and visit the most exotic destinations on the planet. 

However, it doesn’t have to be something that is out of reach for you. If you want to know how to travel like the LGBTQIA+ rich and famous, read on! 

Pick the right destination 

Before you decide to pack your backs with your favorite outfits and tech, and even before you book your flights and hotel reservation, you need to settle on a destination. 

As a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, you’ll be aware there are some destinations that are no-go zones. Or if you do decide to visit these places, you’ll have to keep your true self concealed – and nobody wants to do that. 

Plus, if you want to travel like the rich and famous, you need to get your timing right. That means checking the calendar for any major festivals and events that celebrate LGBTQIA+. Pride month is a particularly enticing time to travel – and not just because of the summer weather! 

Pack your bags

Minus the really expensive designer items, this is an area where you can truly catch up with the rich and famous. For instance, Cash Lady’s travel pack guide demonstrates your suitcase can contain the same type of tech and outfits as celebrities do. 

Think about it: even the most high-end tablet computers and headphones are within the average person’s budget. 

Go five-star 

You might have to save up a month’s wages to afford it, but there’s nothing quite like staying at a five-star hotel. Along with impeccable service and the most high-end furnishings, there’s the chance you could rub shoulders with celebrities while sipping on a margarita at the bar. 

Visit trendy hotspots 

All rich and famous people are enticed to the latest trendy hotspots in a major city. Whether this is a Michelin-starred restaurant in London or the most buzzing nightclub in Ibiza, you’ll often see a celebrity or two in attendance. Getting into these hotspots isn’t easy, of course. For a world-renowned restaurant, you might have to book a reservation a year in advance. 

To know which nightlife spots are worth visiting, Hostel World has a handy list of their top 20 best nightclubs the world has to offer. 

Be yourself 

When you look up to the famous LGBTQIA+ community figures, they don’t shy away from who they are. They’re proud of their sexuality. They’re proud of being a representative of the community. As a result, they dress in a way that is comfortable for them. 

When you’re packing your clothes, keep this in mind. You don’t have to be upfront and bold with your fashion choices, but you also shouldn’t hide your sexuality and who you are.  

 

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Top Tips For Planning An LGBT-Friendly Holiday

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Whatever your sexuality, you have the right to enjoy a holiday without fear of being discriminated against because of who you’re attracted to. Unfortunately, there are some regions in the world that cannot provide this. For the safety and happiness of you and any other persons you’re abroad with, without having to hide who you really are, it’s best to avoid these locations.

There are some top tips you can follow when planning an LGBT-friendly holiday, which will ensure that you’ll turn up in a location that can make you feel assured and welcome in your own body and sexuality. Here are some key tips:

Research the local and national LGBT laws

This is probably the most obvious way of checking whether the holiday is appropriate for you and your party. You can usually do this with a quick google search. Whilst it shouldn’t be the case in the 21st Century, there are still some countries which actually have laws against homosexuality, so on the basis of safety, research is integral.

Passport Identity

If you identify as transgender, you should make sure that your passport is updated to your new name and gender, as if your new identity does not match your passport, this could create unwanted stresses at the airport should security need to question you further.

In the UK, at least, it is reasonably easy to change your gender on your passport. You just need to provide a document which can prove that the gender change is official in formal terms. However, you should do this well in advance of the holiday, in case the process takes a while.

Check For Local LGBT Businesses

For example, local gay bars. Although this does not necessarily prove that an area is entirely friendly towards the LGBT community, it does help to better indicate that there is greater acceptance locally. 

Most major first world cities are home to several LGBT owned businesses, whilst they are much more sparse in less populated areas, and in less tolerant countries and regions. This is something to think about before deciding where to book your holiday, but it does entirely depend on what you want to do on, and get out of, your holiday.

Consider The Pink Money Commercialisation

Pink Money is essentially the purchasing power of the LGBT community. Described in the dictionary, it is the financial ability to buy products and services. Many businesses actually target the LGBT audience, due to the huge value of pink money. In 2019, LGBT adults were said to have had a buying power of $3.7 billion. So, it’s important that you are aware both before your holiday, and on your holiday,  particularly if you’re in a popular LGBT destination, of the potential commercialisation of the community from businesses, which could result in you forking out more money than originally planned.

 

Wherever you decide for your destination, though, it’s important that you enjoy it and embrace the break from your everyday life. The best way to do this is by being your true self. You should never sign yourself up for a holiday because a location looks pretty, or because all of your mates want to go. Take the time to research the area and remember, avoiding a potentially dangerous holiday is much better than going on one in which risks your safety.

 

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How to Spend Best 48 Hours in Miami

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Honestly, you can’t see the entire Miami in just two days, but we’ll try to give you a delicious sample of what this city has to offer. Use this guide if you want to spend full and fun 48 hours in Miami and get a nibble of everything that makes it so special. Here’s an easy and stress-free itinerary to follow. 

Morning, day 1 

In Miami, it’s best to start your day at the beach. You can hit the famous South Beach and soak up all the sights and sounds of this magical place. Go straight to the heart of Ocean Road and enjoy a swirl of neon lights, pumping music, interesting architecture and amazing sidewalk cafés. You can grab a table and get your iced coffee, but it’s best to spend your time strolling along this strip. When you get hungry, visit one of the eateries like La Sendwicherie and order their enormous sandwich in a baguette. No matter if you’re used to long things, this sandwich will be a challenge to swallow! 

Afternoon, day 1

Continue your day on the right note by getting to know the city. If you’re a bit lazy to explore on your own, book one of the many Miami sightseeing tours and you’ll get an experienced guide to keep you informed about every site you pass. These tours are affordable for every wallet, yet offer great insight into the city. You’ll get great tips on where to ear, what to see on your own and where to party like crazy later in the day!  

Evening, day 1

Dining in Miami is everything, so hit South Beach and find a fancy restaurant to get an amazing experience. In Miami, you can find everything your stomach ever wanted from sushi in Pubbelly Sushi to pizza in Lucali and seafood in The Local House. If you want something truly exclusive and elevated, you can visit Stubborn Seed and order their tasting menu where you can try a plethora of classics and seasonal creations. Once you get full and ready to drink, visit The Broken Shaker for some craft cocktails and a taste of Miami’s laidback lifestyle (make sure to get one of those giant bowls of tasty cocktails). 

Finish the day at a nightclub, one of the essential parts of Miami culture. And since the queer community is so big, expect to find a lot of gay clubs where you can drink, dance and have a blast with friends and strangers. For the best and gayest night out, visit Twist, a two-story building with several bars, a few dance floors, and more boys than you can imagine. 

Morning, day 2

Once again, start your day at the beach so the sun can cure your hangover. You can visit the very tip of Miami Beach at South Pointe Park and watch cruise ships, lay in the sand, walk the pier and have breakfast in the park. If you want a different kind of fun, visit the famous 12th Street Gay Beach. 

Afternoon, day 2

Sure, every city in the world has an art district, but Wynwood is not your average area spackled with murals and galleries. Almost every building in this neighborhood is covered with stunning art created by world-class artists. Its center is definitely Wynwood Walls, a gallery of murals you’ll never forget. Many artists like Shepard Fairey and Eduardo Kobra have displayed their work in this free rotating gallery. 

Evening, day 2 

Grab dinner as you go, but make sure to end your Miami adventure in Little Havana. Once you enter Calle Ocho, you’ll see that the music on this strip never stops and wherever you turn, you can hear a moving salsa beat. In most cases, the sound is coming from Ball & Chain, an iconic spot in Calle Ocho with non-stop live music. If you’re unsure about your dance moves and how to approach Latino boys or girls, drink a few mojitos first to help with confidence. 

48 hours is definitely enough for you to fall in love with Miami. The city is wild yet faithful and it will wait for you to come back and finish what you started.

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Relocating to Europe: Countries for LGBTQIA+ Couples

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Whether your goal is to advance your career or simply experience new people and cultures, moving abroad can come with a number of benefits for any individual. However, this decision can prove to be much more challenging when it comes to the LGBTQIA+ community, even in a generally open and accepting place such as Europe. Depending on the country, a person’s gender identity or sexual orientation can still open them up to persecution or harassment. To make this choice a bit easier, here are some of the most LGBT-friendly European countries that are always a good choice for couples:

The Netherlands

The Netherlands has always had a special connection with the LGBTQIA+ community, being the first country to legalize same-sex marriage, and among the first places to decriminalize homosexuality and even open famous gay bars throughout history. This freedom and openness still remain important today.

In the Netherlands, trans adults can self-identify without a statement from a doctor, children can change their gender, same-sex couples can use surrogacy services or adopt, and expats can even sponsor their partners, thus making it simpler to move to the country. While the attitude of the population towards the community might not be ideal, especially in terms of gender diversity, the Netherlands is still an LGBT-friendly country and a great place to relocate to in Europe.

Montenegro

Small, tucked away, and often overlooked, Montenegro might not be among the first destinations that come to mind when thinking of LGBT-friendly destinations in Europe. However, Montenegro has recently made history, becoming the first non-EU Balkan country to legalize same-sex civil partnerships in 2020. Not to mention that the country offers plenty of opportunities for expats.

By investing in local property, you might get the chance to acquire citizenship significantly faster, and you are truly spoilt for choice in this country. For instance, the town of Herceg Novi in Montenegro offers plenty of real estate opportunities, from stunning coastal apartments to charming historic houses hidden in the mountains. Truly something for every type of couple, all in gorgeous natural surroundings.

Belgium

LGBTQIA+ rights in Belgium are undoubtedly some of the most progressive in the world, with the country even ranking second on ILGA’s Rainbow Europe Index in 2019. Legalizing same-sex marriage soon after the Netherlands, couples in Belgium can enjoy the same rights as opposite-sex partners, including access to adoption and in vitro fertilization.

Expats can also get the opportunity to marry here if one partner has been living in Belgium for at least three months, and it’s also possible for foreigners authorized to stay here to sponsor their partners. Along with highly advanced transgender rights, Belgium exhibits an incredibly high level of acceptance in general, and is among the best European countries to start a new life in.

Spain

Spain has always been among the most culturally liberal countries for the LGBTQIA+ community. From legalizing same-sex marriage early on to countless music, literature, and cinema exploring queer themes, Spain truly has a welcoming and diverse scene for all members of the community, as well as some of the world’s most gorgeous landscapes.

When registering their partnerships, expat same-sex couples have plenty of rights in Spain, including parenthood recognition, adoption, survivor pensions, protection from domestic violence, equal treatment for tax purposes, and recognition for immigration purposes. Individuals have been able to change their gender here since 2007, and Spain was recognized as being the world’s most supportive country of trans rights. This makes Spain quite a friendly and accepting destination for all.

With over 40 countries in Europe, the list mentioned above clearly isn’t exhaustive. However, it does look into the unique challenges facing the LGBTQIA+ community in Europe, allowing queer couples to make a better, more informed choice when relocating to the continent.

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Top And Friendly Destinations For The LGBT Community Around The World

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When it comes to LGBT travel destinations there are obviously no limits. The LGBT community looks for exactly the same things that everyone else looks for when traveling…that is to say everything! From thrilling, adrenaline-packed adventure getaways to luxury, relaxing beach resorts, secluded mountain retreats to vibrant city breaks, there’s no one size fits all vacation here.

That being said, there are a few places around the world that are particularly well set up for LGBT travelers. So if you are planning a cruise in 2022 and want to make it as fabulous as possible, take a look at these options as some of the most friendly LGBT travel destinations around the world. 

Copenhagen, Denmark

Denmark has long been at the forefront of LGBT rights, in both Europe and across the globe. The home of Lego, hygge, amazing design, and New Nordic Cuisine was also the first country in the world to recognize same-sex partnerships. Copenhagen is a glorious, open, welcoming capital city, with a wonderful dining culture, a truly amazing fashion scene, a bright and vibrant nightlife, and some of the coolest, edgiest neighborhoods anywhere in the world.

New Zealand

On the other side of the world, New Zealand is another country with a long history of progressive attitudes towards LGBT rights. In 1998 they were the first country in the world to legislate to allow businesses and enterprises to label as ‘Gay/Lesbian Friendly’, and they host one of the best and most exciting Pride events to be found anywhere, with Winter Pride offering a gay ski festival among its events. There is also a fantastic community of LGBT-friendly B&Bs right across the country, ensuring a warm welcome wherever you go.

Sitges, Spain

Sitges is the beating heart of Spain’s LGBT scene, and one of the biggest gay destinations in Europe. With beautiful nude beaches, an amazing collection of LGBT festivals and events throughout the year, and one of the best collection of gay bars anywhere, not to mention the amazing Catalan culture and cuisine, this is a must-visit for any LGBT travelers. 

Berlin, Germany

Berlin has long been the LGBT party capital of the world, and it remains world-class when it comes to kink, fetish, and LGBT clubbing. Best of all, in Berlin the party never ends, with clubs and bars open all night and well into the next day. For the hardcore ravers, for sure, but Berlin is hard to beat. 

 

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6 Places to Visit for a Self-Care Reset This Year

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Self-care is vital for leading a healthy life. A “reset” trip is the perfect way to bring in the new year, especially for anyone who finds themselves burned out after working hard. Even if you rarely take time off work, planning a short trip by yourself may be beneficial. Not only can you explore new cities, but you can also leave your worries behind and find inner peace and happiness through self-care activities. We are sharing six places where you can find your own zen.

New Orleans, LA

Whether you’re looking to try something different or expand your horizons, this city is definitely worth the visit. You can find plenty of opportunities to enjoy the arts, music, and food that reflect the city’s Southern roots as well as its thriving LGBTQ scene.

Other activities are available for introverts who want time alone. For instance, you can take one of the many historical tours around town or visit a museum by yourself to learn more about American history. If you’re looking for something a little more adventurous, you could visit the Audubon Butterfly Garden, an expansive garden with hundreds of species of butterflies.

Knoxville, TN

One of the great things about Knoxville is how it’s off the beaten path for most Americans, which means you’ll have an authentic cultural experience without the hustle and bustle of tourists. Take your time to explore the city’s top attractions, like the Sunsphere, or spend an afternoon relaxing at World’s Fair Park. You’ll also have access to plenty of museums, galleries, and theaters if you’re interested in arts and culture.

Knoxville is also an affordable place to live, which means you won’t have to worry about draining your savings. Combined with its proximity to the Great Smoky Mountains, Knoxville can be a nice destination for a vacation home. You can even rent your vacation home to others throughout most of the year when you aren’t using it or split your time in the house with your friends.

Denver, CO

If you are an outdoor enthusiast, the Mile High City definitely deserves a look for your reset experience. Denver gets 300 days of sun per year, so anytime is a good time to be outside. And you’ll find plenty of things to do, from riding on bike trails, to visiting botanical gardens, to taking in a show at the Red Rocks Amphitheater.

San Diego, CA

You could go to dozens of different places in California, but San Diego has some unique attractions that set it apart from the rest. You’ll find great weather and beaches as well as a tremendous variety of activities for those who like bands or surfing.

If you want to enjoy some quality alone time, you can visit museums and art galleries. For instance, the Mingei International Museum is dedicated to showcasing art pieces, folk crafts, and worldwide cultural artifacts. If you want something more peaceful, you could visit Balboa Park for self-guided tours through 15 different gardens that reflect various cultures.

New York City, NY

The city that never sleeps truly offers something for everyone who visits. Whether you fancy seeing the shows on Broadway, singing “take me out to the… Yankees game!” at the ballpark, or bar crawling through Brooklyn, you’re bound to enjoy yourself. Everyone should visit New York at least once, so put it on your self-care itinerary.

Sedona, AZ

For those seeking mild winter weather, consider visiting Sedona, Arizona. It’s a great place to escape the harsh winter months if you’re tired of high heating bills and snow. Not only can you view red rocks from above, but you can also explore trails around town to discover unique rock formations. Sedona also offers one-of-a-kind shops, museums, and restaurants.

Take a Trip to Rejuvenate

It can be difficult to commit to taking time off, but it’s so important to engage in this type of self-care. If you’re worrying about how everything will get done, give yourself time to plan. You can train a few competent employees on your most important tasks, or hire a virtual assistant to keep track of things while you’re out. But the most important thing is to really walk away for the duration of your vacation. Don’t check your work cell phone or your work email. Just relax.

Besides providing fun activities, a short vacation will help you refill your metaphorical well. By visiting new places, you’re expanding your horizons and comfort zone. Visit a new city this year, and enjoy a self-care reset that will bring happiness and joy to your life.

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